Working for family members.

Don't.

I made the mistake of "helping"one of my cousins and the balance due was never paid for my web design/consultation/ services. This persons domains are about to expire. I will not help him again.

Why do people think just because you're related your time isn't as important as "their"time. He's an auto mechanic you don't see me telling him he shouldn't be paid for his services or his time. I went to school for, studied hard for, and graduated with honors to be able to do what I enjoy.

I work for an attorney full time.  So this was my personal time I used. Never again.

Keeping it real on Facebook

Juanita R. McCants

If you send me a message saying, "hey cuz," and expect me to know who you are...it doesn't work that way. I know your mama or your daddy. Chances are I don't know their offspring because I was probably out of the state when you were born. Chances are I have never met you except when you were an infant. I can barely keep track of my 4 kids names and my immediate nieces and nephews that live near myparents. So when you send me a message put this is (your real name) my mama is...and my daddy is...and then I might respond. Other than that don't expect a response from me. I DON'T KNOW YOU man!!!. Yes. I'm mean. Your mama and daddy should have warned you about that before you sent the message...so epic fail on your part noob. Try again and this time let me know your lineage and if I liked your mama and daddy I might respond. If I didn't you might not like my response. So...do you wanna take a chance on that evil lady hurting your wittle feelings or will you man/girl up and try again.

Ghandi had it right!

I love this quote. Every time I see so called Christians doing and saying stupid things I look at this quote and I smile to myself. 

Mahatma Gandhi 

“I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.”
― Mahatma Gandhi

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Visit my You Tube page!

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How cults work. Information for adults and children.

How Cults Work  http://www.howcultswork.com/

• Single charismatic leader.
• People always seeming constantly happy and enthusiastic. Especially if you discover that they have been told to act that way for the potential new recruits.
• Instant friends.
• If you are told who you can or cannot talk to or associate with.
• They hide what they teach.
• Say they are the only true group, or the best so why go anywhere else.
• Hyped meetings, get you to meetings rather than share with you.
• Experiential rather than logical.
• Asking for money for the next level.
• Some cults travel door to door during times when women are home alone. They, and this is rather sexist, think that women are easier to recruit and once they have the woman then it will be easier to snare the husband or partner.
• Saying that they have to make people pay for it because otherwise they will not appreciate it. This is of course a very silly reason, plenty of people are able to appreciate things which they did not pay for.